So here is what I did.
I downloaded HEM and imported some old Pstars files to get it working, it was working perfectly.
Then, I needed to import my FTP files and it would not work. So I tried purging the hands then found support where it said I needed to delete the dbase in order to start a new one. So I went through the postgre steps to delete the DB and it asked for a password.
I did not have the password so I tried to delete postgre sql. I then tried to reinstall it but it still remembers the service so it won't reinstall without the original password, I tried the config file but it already says trust.
I then went to my services directory under control panel, but the postgre service is not listed (Probably because I ran uninstall on it) so I cannot delete the service.
Now HEM won't even open because I don't have postgre SQL on my comp, everywhere I tried to find postgre help doesn't have a solution for my problem.